How to Choose the Right Mortgage Lender in Richmond, VA

Curt Reichstetter

Aug 13

7 min read

Updated: 5 days ago

A mortgage lender can give you a preapproval letter without doing enough work to know whether your financing is actually solid.

That happened to one of our buyers.

They came to us already preapproved through the mortgage company connected to a well-known national bank they had used for years. We helped them find a house, write an offer, and get it accepted. Everything appeared to be moving toward closing.

Then, during the week of closing, the lender discovered a problem that had been there from the beginning. Suddenly, the loan—and the purchase—were in jeopardy.

We called one of our trusted lenders. They stepped in, started over, and rescued the transaction. Fortunately, the buyer still got the house.

But that emergency never should have happened. The original lender had issued a preapproval without doing enough work upfront to identify the problem.

THE LESSON

The lender with the most recognizable name—or the lowest advertised rate—is not necessarily the lender you should trust with your home purchase.

Prefer to watch instead of read? In Episode 17 of Beyond the For Sale Sign, Curt explains how to compare mortgage lenders, understand rates and fees, and identify whether a lender is prepared to get your Richmond-area home purchase to closing.

Watch: How to Choose the Right Mortgage Lender in Richmond, VA

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Choosing a lender is not only about finding someone willing to produce a preapproval letter. You need to know how thoroughly that lender reviewed your finances, what the loan will actually cost, and whether the loan officer can perform when your offer and closing are on the line.

1. Did the Lender Really Review Your Finances?

Not every preapproval letter represents the same amount of work.

Some lenders ask a few questions, pull credit, enter the information into an automated system, and produce a letter quickly. That may be enough to begin a conversation, but it does not necessarily mean the buyer’s financing has been thoroughly reviewed.

A dependable lender will want to examine the information behind the application: income, assets, debts, credit, employment history, and anything else that could create an underwriting problem later. Depending on the buyer’s circumstances, that may include pay stubs, bank statements, tax returns, or written explanations.

Providing documents before you have found a house can feel like a lot of work. But discovering a financing problem before you fall in love with a house is far better than discovering it during the week you are supposed to close.

Do not simply ask, “Can you give me a preapproval letter?” Ask:

THE BETTER QUESTION

“What financial documents have you actually reviewed?”

You want to understand whether the lender has verified your information or is relying primarily on what you entered into an application. A preapproval is not a guaranteed loan offer, and the loan will still need to complete the lender’s approval and underwriting process. The terminology also varies among lenders, which makes the work behind the letter more important than the label printed across the top.

2. Do You Understand the Complete Cost?

Interest rate matters, but the lowest advertised rate is not always the least expensive loan.

A lender may offer a lower rate while requiring the buyer to pay discount points upfront. Another lender may quote a slightly higher rate with fewer lender charges and less cash required at closing. A rate by itself does not tell you enough.

The Loan Estimate is designed to show important information about the mortgage being offered. It includes the loan terms, estimated payment, closing costs, and estimated cash to close. It also shows whether the interest rate is locked and identifies origination charges and any points being paid to reduce the rate.

When comparing lenders, every lender needs to price the same basic scenario:

· The same purchase price

· The same down payment

· The same loan type and term

· The same estimated closing date

· The same rate-lock period

· The same assumptions about taxes, insurance, and mortgage insurance

If those assumptions are different, you are not comparing two lenders. You are comparing two different loans.

What to Compare Between Mortgage Lenders

Compare	What to Ask	Why It Matters
Financial review	Which documents have you actually reviewed?	Shows how much work supports the preapproval.
Interest rate	Is the quoted rate locked? Until when?	An unlocked rate can change before closing.
Discount points	How much am I paying upfront to obtain this rate?	A lower rate may require more cash upfront.
Lender charges	What are the total origination charges?	Lender fees are part of the loan’s cost.

Monthly payment	What is the estimated total monthly payment?	The payment can include more than principal and interest.
Cash to close	How much money will I need at settlement?	Buyers need to plan for down payment and closing costs.
Availability	Who will help when we write an evening or weekend offer?	Fast, informed communication may matter in competition.
Closing ability	Can you meet the proposed closing date?	The financing must fit the contract timeline.

Rate, Points, and Cash to Close Are Different Numbers

Discount points are upfront fees paid to the lender in exchange for a lower interest rate. That may or may not be the right tradeoff for a particular buyer. The important thing is to know that the lower rate was not free and to understand how long it would take for the lower payment to recover the upfront cost.

Also look beyond the lender’s charges. The estimated cash to close generally includes the down payment and closing costs, adjusted for items such as deposits and credits. Property taxes and homeowners insurance are not set by the lender, so estimates for those items may not distinguish one lender from another. Compare the lender-controlled costs and the complete loan terms—not simply the largest number on the bottom of the page.

The Consumer Financial Protection Bureau provides a useful interactive guide for reviewing a Loan Estimate and comparing offers. Review the CFPB Loan Estimate Explainer

3. Will the Lender Perform When It Matters?

Real estate does not operate only from nine to five, Monday through Friday.

A Richmond-area buyer may find the right house on a Saturday and need an updated preapproval that evening. The buyer’s agent may need to speak with the loan officer before recommending financing terms for the offer. The listing agent may call the lender to understand how thoroughly the buyer has been reviewed.

A good lender can discuss the strength of the process without disclosing the buyer’s private financial information. That conversation does not guarantee that an offer will be accepted, but a responsive, credible lender can help give the seller confidence that the financing has been taken seriously.

An unreachable loan officer—or a call center where the buyer speaks with someone different every time—can create uncertainty when decisions must be made quickly.

Before choosing a lender, ask who your main point of contact will be, when that person is available, how quickly the lender can issue an updated preapproval, and whether the lender can meet the closing date you expect to include in the contract. A bank may do an excellent job handling your checking account or credit card. That does not automatically mean its mortgage department—or the particular loan officer assigned to you—is the best choice for your purchase. Evaluate the person and the process, not simply the name on the building.

Questions to Ask a Mortgage Lender Before You Apply

· Which financial documents will you review before issuing my preapproval?

· Will my information be reviewed by the loan officer, an automated system, an underwriter, or some combination?

· Which loan programs should I consider, and why?

· What interest rate are you quoting, and is it locked?

· Am I paying discount points to receive that rate?

· What lender charges appear on the Loan Estimate?

· What is the estimated total monthly payment and estimated cash to close?

· Who will be my primary contact throughout the transaction?

· Can I reach that person when we are preparing an evening or weekend offer?

· How quickly can you provide an updated preapproval?

· Can you meet the closing date we are considering?

· What could cause the rate, payment, closing costs, or cash to close to change?

Local Is Not Automatically Better—and Online Is Not Automatically Worse

This is not an argument that every online lender is bad or every local lender is good. The company’s location does not answer the three questions that matter.

What matters is whether the lender has reviewed the buyer’s finances, explained the complete cost, communicated clearly, and demonstrated that the loan can be delivered on the required timeline.

Speak with more than one lender. Compare the same loan scenario. Ask questions until you understand exactly what is being offered. Then compare preparation, communication, and reliability along with rates and fees.

Conclusion

A preapproval letter helps you write an offer. The lender behind that letter is responsible for getting you to closing.

The wrong lender can make a buyer feel approved right up until the transaction begins to fall apart. The right lender does the difficult work early, tells the truth, explains the complete cost, communicates when the offer is on the table, and keeps the loan moving toward closing.

When your house is on the line, the cheapest-looking loan is not always the best loan. Choose the lender you trust to deliver.

Frequently Asked Questions

Should I choose the mortgage lender with the lowest advertised rate?

Not automatically. Compare the rate, annual percentage rate, discount points, lender fees, cash to close, loan terms, and the lender's ability to perform on the contract timeline. An advertised rate may not reflect your complete cost.

How many mortgage lenders should a buyer compare?

Comparing multiple written Loan Estimates can make costs and terms easier to evaluate. Buyers should request estimates based on the same loan type, down payment, lock period, and assumptions so the comparison is meaningful.

What documents should a lender review before issuing a preapproval?

The exact documentation varies, but a substantive review commonly includes income, assets, debts, credit, employment, and funds needed for the transaction. Ask what the lender has actually verified rather than relying only on the word preapproved.

What is the difference between interest rate and APR?

The interest rate is the cost of borrowing the principal, while APR is designed to reflect the interest rate plus certain loan charges. Neither number alone replaces a full comparison of the Loan Estimate and cash needed at closing.

What are mortgage discount points?

Discount points are upfront fees paid in exchange for a lower interest rate. Whether they make sense depends on the cost, the monthly savings, available cash, and how long the buyer expects to keep the loan.

Does using a local mortgage lender matter in Richmond?

Location alone does not determine quality. What matters is the lender's underwriting preparation, communication, availability, product fit, transparency, and ability to meet the deadlines in the purchase agreement.

When should a Richmond homebuyer talk with a lender?

Before serious home shopping. Early preparation can identify documentation issues, establish a comfortable payment range, compare loan options, and make an offer strategy more reliable.